OK so this is an immediate follow up to my previous post about how easy it is today to walk away from commitment.  On top of making divorce socially welcome and easy, we make it so easy to walk away from finance issues by going bankrupt and many other ways of forgoing committment.  But I digress...that is not what this post is about.

On behalf of almost all men out there, I want to thank all of the women for giving us so much credit.  For believeing in our ability to interpret the smallest flick of a shoulder for what you "so obviously" intended it to mean.  A word of advice to the women though....use your big girl words.  Why would you tug on your ear when you said it was OK to have a friend over for dinner and expect the man to just know that it was a bad idea?  Use your big girl words and speak.  We are not near as intelligent in some ways as you seem to think....we cannot differentiate from a nervous TWITCH and a sign from the heavenly Venus that we are about to unleash the fury and feel the wrath of a thousand monsters.  Speak your mind.  This can be done tactfully but you have to realize that COY....not always effective.  Help us out and use your big girl words. 

And, just so I show that I know it is not only women that do this...a message for those men who play the same game....use your big boy words.  Even if none of them are bigger than 2 syllables, use them. 

Fair is Fair after all.  We as a society should focus our energy into making ourselves better communicators rather than making it easy to walk away from committment.

ALL DAY, EVERY DAY, UNDERWATER = HEAVEN.